Respect Is the New Power Move.

Being respectful isn’t rocket science; it’s simple, and it creates instant goodwill. A little courtesy elevates your presence and makes others feel valued.

Using someone’s name is one of the strongest rapport builders. It signals attention and respect without any extra effort.

When someone is speaking to you, be fully present. Put the phone away, maintain eye contact, and if you need to step out, a quick “It was lovely speaking with you, please excuse me” is enough; no explanations required.

Avoid oversharing. In early or casual conversations, keep things light and ask about their interests, favourite places, or local recommendations. Showing interest in them is more impactful than unloading your life story.  

Skip unnecessary physical contact. Beyond the initial handshake, keep your hands relaxed at your sides. Avoid crossed arms or pocket hands; they read as closed off.

Use “please”, “thank you”, and “you’re welcome” generously. These small courtesies go a long way in building trust and credibility.

And never leave without a proper goodbye. A simple Goodbye, great meeting you, is professional, warm, and always appreciated. 

Dos of Being Respectful

• Greet people warmly

• Shake hands (when appropriate)

• Use names in conversation  

• Say please and thank you

•  Hold the door when you’re ahead

•  Give full attention when someone speaks

•  Offer genuine compliments  

• Stand and sit with good posture

•  Say goodbye before leaving

Don’ts of Being Respectful

• Check your phone during conversations

•  Touch people beyond a handshake

•  Shake hands if you’re unwell

•  Overshare personal information

•  Ask intrusive questions

•  Use profanity

•  Arrive late

•  Gossip

•  Fidget constantly.

Respect isn’t a performance; it’s a behaviour. Master the basics, and you instantly elevate the way people experience you.