Business Etiquette: Elevator, Doors & Dining
Business etiquette today is not about gender- it’s about respect and hierarchy.
Forget ladies first. Instead, think: Who’s the host? Who’s senior? Who’s the client? That will guide your actions.
Opening Doors
The person who wants to show respect opens the door.
If you’re hosting, you open the door always, regardless of gender.
Junior professionals hold the door for seniors.
A simple gesture with your hand and a polite “After you” works every time.
Ordering at a Business Meal
The server may naturally start with women, but as a host, you should guide the flow.
If the server comes to you first, order wine for the table, then invite the highest-ranking person (often the most senior woman in a mixed group) to place their order before you.
Keep it courteous with a smile and “Please, after you.”
Who Pays?
The host always pays.
Clients should never be picking up the bill in a professional setting unless you’re invited as their guest.
Elevator Etiquette
The host or junior person calls the elevator, stands aside, and holds the door open.
Say “After you” as the senior person or client enters and exits.
You’re always the last one in and last one out.
Revolving Door Rules
Two correct options exist, but one shows more care:
Preferred: Push the door while gesturing “After you”, then walk in behind your guest, taking the effort of moving the door.
Walk through first, then keep pushing until your guest enters. (Works, but can appear thoughtless.)
Outdated Phrases
Retire “Ladies first.”
Replace it with a simple, respectful: “After you.”
In business, etiquette isn’t about gender; it’s about showing respect, hosting graciously, and making others comfortable.
